Working with a doula

What end of life doula support involves varies depending on a person's needs, but always includes a mix of practical and emotional support. Our practising members agree to follow our code of practice and meet our standards.
Our role is to provide holistic, compassionate support, ensuring that a person’s wishes, values, and preferences are respected at end of life. We welcome referrals from individuals themselves, as well as from family members, partners, friends, and healthcare professionals (with the person’s consent). 
 
The Initial Conversation
The first discussion with your doula is an opportunity to get to know each other and ensure you feel comfortable. This is the foundation of a supportive relationship—one where we listen with empathy to understand:
  • What makes a good day or week for you
  • Your likes, dislikes, hopes, fears, and concerns
  • Where and how you would like to be cared for
  • How you like your living to be
  • What needs to be done and arranged so that you can ‘get on with the business of living’
 
Our Approach
End of life doulas place the individual and those important to them at the centre of everything we do. Our goal is to create an environment where the person feels safe, supported, and respected. If there is something beyond our scope as doulas, we will let you know and aim to connect you with other services.
 
Supporting Those Important to You
We also assist family and friends in providing care with confidence. This includes guidance, reassurance, and respite where needed. Our support can also continue with practical help and emotional support for those who are grieving in the initial weeks after death.
 
Fees and Services
Our practising members are self-employed or have their own businesses/not-for-profit organisations. Some end of life doulas choose to offer their services free of charge whilst others charge for the support they provide. We strongly believe that ability to pay should not be a barrier to accessing end of life doula support. Therefore, we can offer subsidised support in certain circumstances – please get in touch via our contact us form to discuss this.