I started training as an end of life doula after helping to support my parents as they died at home – my mother in 2022 and my father in 2024. I was strongly inspired by the people who came together to provide compassionate comfort and care in Mom’s and Dad’s final months.
As a doula, I offer above all my presence. I’m happy to spend time discussing whatever is arising for you and to offer empathy, compassion and support. Some people find it easier to speak about what they’re going through with someone from outside their family or friendship group, someone who will simply listen and hold space. Others don’t have family or friends close by and just need someone to talk to. The conversation is often less ‘What’s the matter with you?’ and more ‘What matters to you?’ Together, we will try to find ways to respond to your situation as it unfolds, keeping you at the centre of all discussions and decisions.
I also can assist with practical and logistical matters – setting up Lasting Power of Attorney, writing a letter of wishes, considering funeral plans, and possibly figuring out a way to get your dog walked.
It’s a privilege to be able to walk beside anyone facing the end of life and to offer companionship, practical support, advocacy and continuity.
In addition to my work as an end of life doula, I’m a wellbeing volunteer at St Leonard’s Hospice in York and I co-facilitate a Death Café in my village – Acomb.
I expect to receive my diploma by the autumn of 2026.